How do you look someone in the eye and tell them?

that you don't love them anymore and you want out of the relationship?





I don't want to hurt her, but I have had enough.How do you look someone in the eye and tell them?
You just do it. Its going to hurt either way, it it's alot easier to just do it and get it over with.How do you look someone in the eye and tell them?
why do you have to look them in the eye..i would stare at my track shoes..that way I avoid the angry monster and that my shoes are on so I can get a head start on her before she kicks my behind.
just tell her, maybe she is waiting to hear it from you. it might help both of you move on.
You do it by being a man enough to look them in the eye and tell them all that.
You sit her down in a quiet moment, tell her what's bugging you, and get out...quick.





I'd be prepared for a crying game b/c if this is unexpected for her, and out of the blue expect a fight--you might want to have your bags packed or if you own the place, pack hers.





It's harsh, but no point beating around the bush.
idk..just tell her easy
I did exactly that... Once u have ur mind made up on what u want it should not be that difficult to do. U just have to hold ur ground and know that is really what u want!





Regardless of not wanting to hurt her u have to do it... it's gonna hurt her either which way! There comes a point of time where u have to know u can't worry about how someone else may feel... u gotta do what's best for u!
Its difficult, but it would be more respectful than telling her in an email or letter. This also allows you the opportunity to explain yourself and your reasoning's without any misunderstandings.





Just take a deep breath and say what's on your mind.





Good luck.
Just man up and be straighforward. In the long run, being totally blunt about it is the kindest way. Don't give her false hope or make her think you want to work on it or just need time.
aint no easy way about it, but best to tell sooner then later or it will just get harder and you will mkae yourself feel more guilty then when it comes to telling them it will hurt them even more knowing you was just pretending
Tell Her That Your Not Sure If Its Right For You.


Maybe Talk It Through, Let Her Down Gently, Not In Front Of Any One Or Right Before She Is Going Some Where Important. Maybe Sit Her Down One Night With A Bottle Of Wine?
send an email...chicks love that!
Well this is a hard question.....you must atleast care about her or you would not care that you are going to hurt her that means something. Sounds to me like it falls under the lines I love you but I'm not in love with you.





Set down and tell her how much you care but that things are just not working out. Offer to be her friend and be there for her.
you get the courage and do it, the worst thing for you to do is to keep this going on and on and on. that is more painful than knowing the truth and giving the other person time to find another
Yikes! Depends on if you are married or not. If you are not married you could break it off and perhaps use different terms than I don't love you. If you are married ..... not an option to have this conversation. You have to find a way to fix your marriage and find the love you once had.





Good luck!
Don't say you don't love her, that is hurtful. Just tell her you want to move on that you don't see this relationship as a good one for either of you. Try to help her through it for awhile %26amp; then she will move on. be nice and gentle; you don't want to be a jerk about it.
Its an awful position to be in and a bad one to get the news. But if your not happy than you have to do whats best for you. Worrying about the other person's feelings speaks volumes for your character. Says your a very kind and sensitive person. On the other hand you can't let her feeling stop you from breaking away because then those feelings you where worried about will then turn into your anker. Dead weight. So there are different tips list below - choice which one best suits your personality.





1. Tell her straight up. I love you but I'm not in love with you anymore. I'm sorry that hurt your feelings and those are not my intentions however I have to be honest to you as well as myself.


2. Stop talking to her - (this choice is weird to me but people I know have done that)


3. This ones not as strait forward as the others but it will give the other person a clue that its coming so its not such a shock to them. Go from hanging every day to once a week. And make visits in public, don't go back to her house. Only talk to her on the phone when she calls don't call her. Then the question of: Do you want to still be in this relationship will be brought up by her not you. Then take it from there. Or maybe she'll want to dump you at that point to out of annoyance.





Personally I'm a blabber mouth I'd go with option #1. But people have different ways of dealing with these situations so go with what suits you best, above all be honest with yourself. Good luck.
ur just gonna have to say it but in the nicest way possible just say uhhh our relationship hasnt been the best lately i was thinking we maybe move on and find other people =( ={ ='o
You just got to do what you got to do, cowboy.
Tell them that you should each go your own ways.
I can tell you that I have been on the receiving end of a few of these conversations and let me tell you what has been the best. Talk with her face to face in private. Be honest and real. If you can give her specific reasons, please do so. Women need closure. If it is another woman, tell her. If it is something she has done, tell her.If she has done nothing and you just don't feel the love for her anymore... then tell her. Whatever it may be, do not feed into any guilty accusations or pleading. Give her some time to say what she has to say and ask questions... answer them honestly. If she carries on for too long, let her know you have to go and then GO. If she accepts it well, then fine, perhaps you can be friends. If she takes it badly, you can never be friends. You should not accept phone calls or see her. It only prolongs her agony and she might not be strong enough to stay away herself. Good luck and whatever you do, do not waste any more of her time or yours.
Just be honest with her. Tell her you think it's time for the two of you to call it quits, let her know you still care but feel things would be best if y'all went your seperate ways.